Alejandrita1981 has left 23 comments

Alejandrita1981 comments on Hotels in Buga/El Senor de los Milagros

I have one.. Actually when I go visit my family in COlombia we like en El Hotel Guadalajara...it is a very nice hotel and it is a short walking distance to the church where you want to go...here is the link...good luck!

http://www.cotelco.org/hotelguadalajara-buga/

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Alejandrita1981 comments on establishing proof of relationship

Yes I do! Maybe you could get notarized statements from friends and family members that will help you prove your case..

Good Luck!

Alejandrita1981 comments on Colombianas cotizadas

HUY ColombianoX Dios mio ...Q' Oso!!! Cuidado te da un patatus!!!!!
Ah y..
"Obviamente sé que él ahora está saliendo con Katie Holmes."..
Si? como no mono...porque no me cuentas una de vaqueros? Si ya lo sabias entonces te doy un consejito mijito...ACTUALIZA TU TEMA!

Gracias!

Alejandrita1981

Alejandrita1981 comments on Please help me regain my faith on Colombian men...

Roofus & BondJames Thank you for the compliment =0)....BondJames...you are right also ...it takes two people to cheat, because as far as i know..masturbation is not cheating...but the one that has the RESPONSABILITY to be faithfull is not the women's best friend or the other woman( although she should have enough respect as to stay away from her friend's man or someone elses man) but the responsability is the boyfriend/husband's...because he is the one that is in the commitment...when my boyfriend cheated on me...I confronted him first...then I went to the other woman and told her that I was not about to fight with her over a no good man...but that i did wish that she would have told me that she wanted him...that way I wouldn't have waisted my precious time on the bastard...and I would have also gift wrapped him for her( since this happened around christmas time) I was angry at both of them...at her for lying about the whole thing ...afraid that my uncle would not give her the visa...and at him for lying and not being man enough to confront the situation...not to mention for putting me at risk of contracting some STD since I found out that the other woman was also sleeping round with other men ...other than him...sometimes people don't understand that when they sleep with someone that is premiscous (like a whore...or another sexually active person)..they are not only cheating on their boyfriend/girlfriend...they are not only putting themselves at risk of contracting something...but also their loved one...who loves them and is there for them whenever they go home...of contracting an STD as well...Is that fair?

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Alejandrita1981 comments on Please help me regain my faith on Colombian men...

OK OK Let's include women in this too...I admitt women can be cheaters too...some women think that if their husband/boyfriend cheats on them...that it is ok to cheat back...and it's not...but I think that women now a days are more liberal...they don't just stay home and wait for their husbands to cheat...I think some of them actually go out and cheat first. Some women don't have a serious boyfriend because they don't want to wake up to the same person every night...It is hard to generalize a certain gender with a certain behavior....every one is different I guess....Thanx for the compliment Utopiacowboy.

Alejandrita

Alejandrita1981 comments on Colombianas cotizadas

Otra cosita.. It would be totally awesome if colombian women were famous for their intelectual capacities and not their reputation for being beautifull and good under the sheets...When I introduce myself to a man and he asks me where I am from and I tell him I am from Cali...the dude acts as if though he was going to get some....flattering...but not really...why?Because as far as I am concerned ...I don't want to be seen as a good piece os ass...excuse my French everyone..

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Alejandrita1981 comments on Colombianas cotizadas

ColombiaX I'm sorry to burst your bubble...no quiero desilucionarte...pero Tom Cruise se va a casar con una actriz Americana que se llama Katie Holmes...Y Chris Tucker cambia novias como si fueran calsoncillos...No creo que tenga nada que ver con su nacionalidad..Sorry

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Alejandrita1981 comments on Please help me regain my faith on Colombian men...

It takes a real man.. In my opinion it takes a REAL man to be faitfull. It takes a REAL man to go against what all the other men are doing and to be true and transparent with the woman that he has at home. A WEAK man will go after the first woman that will spread her legs....and it takes a DOG to do it more than once. If a man (or a woman) is not happy with the person that they are with and want to try something else...then why don't they ended it and them go out and look for something else?....and by doing this ...they at least respect the other person and also keep them from getting hurt?

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Alejandrita1981 comments on Please help me regain my faith on Colombian men...

007 or 000? I definitley think that you should name yourself 000 because your detective techniques are trully pitifull. What makes you think that I was with both of them at the same time? Have you ever thought about the idea that maybe...and really think about this possibility...just maybe I could have gone out with one for let's say 7 months and the other 1year for example? Maybe that idea is to hard to grasp...but I'm sure that if you take a minute to sit down and think about it...you might understand...I would draw you a picture...but as you may notice-that's impossible...GOOD LUCK!

Alejandrita1981 comments on Colombia in books and film

Los ninos invicibles... Los Ninos Invisibles was a really good film...it was a coming of age story...Also Ilona Llega Con la Lluvia is an old film ...but it is with a famous Colombian actress...I can't remembe her name right now....but it's pretty good..

Good Luck!

Alejandrita1981 comments on Please help me regain my faith on Colombian men...

Older Men This time I agree with you Crazy4Cali....I think that is definitley true than women mature faster than men...and in the most part...are more stable...I had a friend that was my age and dated a guy that was 18 years older than her...and they seemed like a very happy couple.

Alejandrita

Alejandrita1981 comments on Los Dichos Colombianos - Colombian Sayings

My Favorite El que se las hace...se las imagina

Alejandrita1981 comments on Advice from the Latinos

Is this a stupid question? Why cheat at all...and this goes for women and men. If you feel that you have to go outside a relationship to get your needs fufilled....why not just break it off and then go find someone else....why cheat?

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Alejandrita1981 comments on Torta Negra

bananito... Thank you so much for your recipe!!! You r 2 sweet!

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Alejandrita1981 comments on Please help me regain my faith on Colombian men...

Crazy for Cali Actually...I don't like bad boys...and these guys did not have the bad boy look at all...believe me. They had the attitude of being very hard working, family oriented, good moral, loving and caring individuals...that's why I never saw it coming. I guess that growing up in a household where both my parents were Colombian...and my father never cheated or disrespected my mother...and were they love each other still after 28 years of marriage...I think this made me naive to the possibility of running into a low life.

Alejandrita1981 comments on Wedding tradtions

Hello... Well..I know that one tradition is the type of cake that is served as the wedding cake...it is called Torta Negra...i don't have a recipe...but I know that it is a very traditional cake. I think that if you guys made that perhaps for the grooms cake ..it would be a nice surprise..:0)...Good Luck!

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Alejandrita1981 comments on Colombians, bathtubs, and bidettes

COLD SHOWERS?..NOOOO! You guys...I don't know what I'm going to do when I go visit Colombia this year ...and have to face the cold showers!!! I am so used to taking almost hot showers...that I can't even get into a shower without it being warm...but as far as bath tubs go...when I do take a bath...and I'm done...I always take a shower after...I can't just take a bath.

Alejandrita1981 comments on Please help me regain my faith on Colombian men...

Yeah... You guys are right....I guess that I had never ran into a bad apple until I met these two guys... :0(

Alejandrita1981 comments on Codependency

LISTEN TO ME.... Giving your girl-friend your debit card in the beginning of the relationship was not a good idea at all....have you ever wondered and asked yourself the question.." does she love me for me...or for my debit card?" I have a couisin that lives in cali and her boyfirnd is an American...he lives in North Carolina....let's just say this...while he is providing for her FINANCIAL needs....a little colombianito is taking care of her OTHER needs. I don't want to burst your bubble...but many girls in colombia hook up with Americans for financial security...read some of the other Forums...and you will se what I mean...you are not the only one with that problem...
Kiss and Hugs...I hope the best 4 you Babe!

Alejandrita1981 comments on colombian slang

I have a butterfly on my lower back I have a tatoo on my lower back...it's a butterfly with her wings spread wide and it is in between two designs...I love it...but I wanted to get a butterfly not only becaus e it is feminine and beautifull but because I have always felt that I was a free spirited person...and since I was a little girl...I have always related to being free like a butterfly...If you want something that has to do with your culture....why don't you get a heart with COLOMBIA written in fancy letters in the center of the heart?

Alejandrita1981 comments on Why are we, Colombians, so freakin' neat?

IT'S TRUE!! I am colombian and my fiancee is to...we take showers 3 to 4 times daily and our house has to be neat and clean as well...our parent s are the same way. I think it has alot to do with the way your parents raised you and with the level of cleanliness that they raised you in. I love to know that my house is clean and that everything is in it's place!

Alejandrita1981 comments on Why are we, Colombians, so freakin' neat?

did YOU ever wonder??? Hey Roofus....Did you ever wonder that all men might not be Dogs? But I guess in your case ...it takes one to know one...hence your name ROOFUS?

Alejandrita1981 comments on With no public assistance, what do families do?

WOW! What A coincidence... I'm sorry to say this...but it just seems to me that that is too much of a coinsidence....I mean I don't want to be rude...but you say that your wife does not ask you for money...but it seems that she knows just what to say in order to make you feel the need to offer. Remember this...your RESPONSABILITY is with your wife...and your wife only. If her couisin or uncle or sister-boyfriend's-aunt gets sick....that is not your problem.That's my opinion anyway.